i didn’t know she did that until 3 years later, this week. My fiancé finally told me out of nowhere, and she didn’t even tell me directly. it was just brought up in a conversation with friends and i shut myself off. i couldn’t believe what she said. her mom wanted me to be as far away from her, because i was “taking her away” … but all i did was treat her right and stop her family from treating her wrong. i’m very protective over my loved ones, her family would treat her likes she’s less than. i would call them out and then the family hated me for a year. i was told im a manipulative man who wants to ruin a family. her siblings wanted to fight me. i was hospitalized for mental health at one point. i started to believe that something was actually wrong with me. idk how im suppose to feel. i love people, i hate abusers, my father hurt me and almost killed my mom. i hate abusers and i lover my fiancé… but she waited until now to tell me, and she says im wrong for being upset