I wrote a message on the Sub some time ago regarding how I got no clue what to do and I can’t get intimate.

  1. Stopped watching p*rn as much. I used to do it everyday for like 1.5 years and before that I was regular. I’ve been off that stuff for 2-3 weeks prolly 1-2 times a week and I can’t. Even say how much it has helped me. It increases your confidence because you’re no longer pedestal-ising even the good looking ones.

  2. Take accountability- most of us who can’t score” are lazy not physically just mentally. If you want it bad enough you will. There is no easy way around. Everyone has seen that 5’7 guy who got way better game than you even tho you’re better than him in every aspect. It’s because he wants it and wants it more than you. And he knows how he gotta compensate it.

  3. I’m still a virgin and I won’t say I got crazy game. But I got offer on hinge this week 50% off this month so I bought the membership. I worked my ass off in general. Just don’t eat out you can compensate and putting efforts into my profile again not being lazy I put efforts into prompts I got 22 matches in 2 days I’ve been just doing it.

Important points to note from my unlimited likes experience

  1. Dont base your value on base if these apps- it is like judging a fish by its comedic ability. Makes no sense and so does you self sabotaging yourself. I found out that 1.-Girls get 1500 likes easily. 2.-Good looking dudes get 150 3.-I got 1 in 1 month, also because I wasn’t putting effort in my profile. 4.- I’m sitting on 22 matches within 2 days.

It’s all algorithm and unrealistic expectations.

So step 1 - you’re worth way more than you think.

So how should you do it or atleast reach a respectable place.

Step 1. Self esteem - the only thing important in this world. How confident and comfortable are you in your own skin. Watch Ted talks , most important Kanye wests rants on self esteem he is the best example. Once you realise loving yourself is the superpower and actual confidence is the Secret ingredient you will become unstoppable.

  1. Become smart - it’s easy

“Only a fool expects a different result after doing the same thing again or something” -Einstein

Read this reddit and learn from the ogs. Read couple of books - not that important See some Robert greens recordings online.

3 be yourself but don’t be lazy.

Be yourself is often confused by accept me as I am No you gotta communicate that better.

You gotta be yourself but also smart enough to alter your communication based on the person.

Lastly I can go on and on but realise a week ago I was doubting myself too. Inner game really is the shit.

Now no matter how dry my stuff goes I know I am worth it.

Let’s say I am baba yaga- I’ll be back with my personal update.

Stay hard