Any advice for a person who has sexual thoughts and the constant urge to be with women but does not have the opportunity to do so? I have never been with a girl, never even touched one and have never received any interest from the opposite sex. But I am probably one of the most sexual guys around. I constantly desire to be with women, to enjoy their company and flirt with them. But in reality whenever I see a pretty girl, my mind automatically destroys any sexual thoughts about her, I can't approach them. In the end I just walk away feeling angry, bitter and frustrated. Later on in private I have fantasies about them.

Then I see them freely talking and laughing with other guys, I see other guys with girls just enjoying their company. I see couples holding hands and walking around. This makes me even more angry. I am almost 22 now. In the middle I even built a pretty decent body, lost a lot of weight, but nothing changed. Now I have gained twice what I lost, I overeat to hide my feelings and in general I feel horrible day in and out.

I know I should be focusing on my studies and work, but for the last 5 months I have not been able to do anything, I am barely passing my exams and even failed in a couple. I have a lot of work(university) that needs to be accomplished, yet I can't just get to work.