I'm an Asian American in China right now and I've a GF/plate. We are in love with each other and she wants to have my babies after we both improve ourselves in 3 years after we both earn more money.

When I say I'm in love with her, it does not mean oneitis at all. In fact, being with her has simply increased my sense of abundance. She is unique and I'm comfortable doing anything around her, but I know she's hypergamous and her shit tests are the toughest I've ever encountered. But because of this, I know that no rational Chinese man would want to get into a relationship with her. I know that she will have occasionally ONS when I'm back in the US, but she has very very high standards for the quality of sex and many other aspects of life for a LTR that very few men would be qualified for. Therefore, I'm in an ideal situation for reproductive arbitrage. If I have babies with her, I'm certain that she would follow the perfect diet I design for her during her pregnancy to optimize the health, brains, and physical strength of our children. She is also capable of raising our children to become the creative genius leaders of the next generation under my guidance.

I've already given her my anarcho-capitalist reasons why I don't believe in marriage and she supports my ideals. I've also got other plates back in the US, but they are just for temporary sex and I don't love them at all.

I will leave China in 2 weeks and I don't care if she sluts around. I won't see her again for at least another year. What I care about is maximizing my chances of reproducing with her while minimizing efforts spent on her and minimizing all financial risks. She needs to feel that I'm the best she can get and that she cannot make as deep of a connection with anyone else. I think there's a high chance of me pulling this off, because she's now convinced that her ideal type is a ripped Westernized Asian man who can speak both Chinese and English, has very high IQ, open minded, great visions for the future, has big cock and could fuck her hard and fast in weird yoga positions for a long time. I got everything other than my flexibility is shit and I prefer to bang slow and hard with full range of motion (very similar to my motions when I lift or row. Explosive on the thrust and slow on the recovery). But other than that, I doubt she can find someone else she likes better. Effectively we will have a long distance open relationship, which is a big no-no by normal logic. But what I seek is not a stable, normal relationship; I just want a low cost surrogate mother who is also a no strings attached long term friend with benefits.

I am terrible at keeping in contact with people who I don't see. What to do to keep the spark alive with minimal efforts? Meanwhile, I will try to find girls similar to her in the US and other countries and create similar relationships with them. I want a global harem of baby mamas.

However, before I even impregnate the first girl, I need to figure out how to protect my future earnings from international child support laws. How does that shit even work? Which countries are the best options? What kind of legal issues might I run into? I don't even know what kind of lawyer I need to ask these questions or have an estimate for the consultation and paperwork fees.