The depths that my STBX goes to, to avoid taking any accountability for her actions… it’s actually pretty insane, and has pushed me to lose absolutely all respect for her.

It's astonishing how far she goes to avoid taking accountability for the pettiest of things.

Issues that could have been resolved with a simple "Sorry, I was wrong," or "You know what, I made a mistake," end up turning into full-blown shouting matches due to her unwillingness to take responsibility for her actions.

I figure if she can't even take accountability for the most minuscule things, then how could I ever trust her with anything else? It makes me wonder if she's ever lied to me about any past infidelity.

Married for 8 years, 1 kid together, 31M/32F.

I've been out of the dating game for a while now. Is this just how women are nowadays?