I met this Russian/Belarus mixed woman from a marriage agency. I’m based between Dubai and Europe, and the woman demands me to contribute at least $7K a month to support her lifestyle, and a substantial % of my income to the family after marriage, with little left for me to pursue my dream (my own business venture). Meanwhile she also works and wanna keep pursuing her career, but only willing to contribute 30% of her income to the family fund.

Firstly I’m making way more money than her, but needs to contribute substantial % to the family fund, while she only wants to commit 30%. She basically asked me to support her financially.

Secondly she spends much more money from the family fund than me, since I’m a minimalist, while she needs to spend money on beauty, cloths, traveling, first class flight, five star hotels.

Is she a gold digger? Although she said she is not materialistic and we are equal in the relationship. But I feel that this is a double standard.

To be honest, I'm tired of the western women because most of them are very self centered. I thought Russian women are better but it turns out they are quite materialistic. Any idea where else to find a good woman?