They broke up earlier this year because she "outgrew" their relationship. She said it was mutual, but she still thought he was a good guy and such, they just outgrew each other, especially since they'd been dating for over 4 years. He tried to win her back, but she just wanted to stay friends.

Fast forward, I started dating her & see her exclusively now.

Few days ago, I found out that she's still in touch with her ex (his friends still talk to her, she still likes & comments his pictures on instagram, and they probably still talk). Truth to be told, I never really asked her about whether she's still in touch with her ex, it was all "detective" work, just me connecting the dots. We never talked about her ex either. But she shares everything with me, and I know they're not seeing each other.

However, she's become a bit distant in the past few days, and redpill got me paranoid. Didn't talk or see her that often in the past week, and she either claimed that she was w/ her family or her phone died, or she's busy with work (which is true, I know she's not lying about this one, at least).

This weekend, she claimed that she's visiting family out of town, And as expected, contact has been minimum, and apparently she's staying the night. Asked her if we're going to see each other once she gets back, she said, "I don't know, we'll see later". Very out of her character.

I don't think she's cheating or anything, but i've got a bad feeling in my stomach.

how does redpill handle it? next her in typical redpill fashion? or should I apply dominance? never really cared about her ex & her guy friends, and I never controlled to whom she's talking to. Should I try to have a conversation with her?