How do I get back out there to find someone new? It’s been two years and the closest I got to was a friendship but she was uninterested in anything more. Asked if she would consider it but her response, though kind, was still negative. I’ve never been the girl chaser. So I’m not sure how to go about it. I suppose the other thing by holding me back is my ex wife’s situation and history. She can’t hold job and gets herself relationships that are either rough or end quickly. Her current one looks promising. I just don’t want to put myself in a situation where I’ll have be to choose my kids over a woman. Though if said woman truly wanted to be with me I guess she’d be understanding of I had to spend less time with her and more with my kids. Idk, my future has never been more uncertain than now. And it bogs me down. I don’t think I can count on any future situation now. Maybe counting on it was my problem.