My brother-in-law got baby trapped by his abusive ex like the title says. She's very obviously trying to manipulate him into spending time with her. Whenever he doesn't spend time with her she starts saying he's a shitty father and all that. For the first 3 weeks whenever he was taking care of his son she wanted to be there and vise versa. Very obviously trying to spend time with him completely unnecessary. I put my foot down and told him it's pick up/ drop off none of this together bullshit. He agreed but was a little hesitant because she's always combative so I told him if you have to pick anything to fight with her about it's that specifically. I also told him for pick up and drop off we'll be there with him so he doesn't have to be alone with her.

But fuck me. The calling is non stop. Hundreds of times a day. Blocking isn't an option because I like being able to see my nephew. Has anyone dealt with something like this before? What's a good way to handle it? Reasoning with her isn't an option this woman isn't just rachet she's the whole damn factory.