Beginner 30 day mission

Dapper-BlackPanther · 2025-01-06T19:03:58+00:00

Making an average of 3.3 approaches per day within 30 days is a great idea. I don't think you need to focus on how many numbers you get since you are a beginner. You can focus on that in the next challenge. But that also doesn't mean you should abandon ever getting any numbers in this challenge too. Focusing on the approach and conversation is most crucial right now.

When making conversation, it's usually best not to ask the standard question of "what do you do for work?" That makes you seem boring. Stand out, be a challenge, and be intriguing. Good questions are questions that have to do with a woman's passions and what she finds beautiful in life. These are usually questions that take a woman away from her typical 9-5. Example: At a New Years Eve party, I asked women what they wanted to leave behind in 2024, and what they looked forward to in 2025. This was an excellent Icebreaker.
Use the "Yes and" principle. Disagreeing with the person you're speaking with doesn't foster a good flow of conversations. Always be looking to span off of ideas and thoughts someone may say even if it's somewhat contrary to their own beliefs. I approached a group a 8 women asking them a question that men and women often disagree on. It ended up with me frustrated, them frustrated, and me attracting no one. I might have built slight comfort, but it wasn't that great.
Don't let bad results get you down. The more you build up a callus towards rejection, the easier approaching becomes. In fact, see rejection is your friend. This is not to say not to focus on critiquing your verbal skills.
. Figure out some openers and canned lines. This is actually very important. Sometimes you may not have any "observation and ask" type of questions to break the ice.

Good luck.

Dizzy-Bench2784 · 2025-01-06T18:15:11+00:00

Don’t count approaches, count phone numbers achieved. No point doing 100 bad approaches. Ideally get a friend to film u

Title	Beginner 30 day mission
Author	ThenSignificance1726
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	January 6, 2025 5:25 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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