OK so the 'online dating' actually applies to someone I already know. I've noticed a ton of things overlapping specifically the dropping out of contact gets a sexually charged message a few days after the break in contact.

I have no idea what I'm doing I guess... I'm using trial and error but some guidance would be nice.

OK - so I'm trapped in Kuwait and my friend who I've wanted to fuck for years now but never showed this in any form has been messaging me a lot on Facebook. She recently had some trouble financially and had to move in with her parents so she usually just want to talk about how bummed out she is.

Well I'm not that green. I'll oblige and listen every once in awhile but usually I'll break contact and that's when she'll send me just off the wall sexually charged stuff.

We have plans to meet up on my block leave once im out of this summer camp and I'm sure in person I can work my magic. I suck at this online cat game though. What kind of tempo should I be following?