So long story short, I [32M] been talking to this girl [27F] from the States for a few weeks online and at some point the conversation steered towards dating and how she actually enjoys "sugar dating" in particular and really wants to try and see how it'd feel to be a sugar baby. Given that I'm in a city in Canada thats not too far from her state, I thought why not give this a try and offered to fly her out to come explore the city and have some "fun" around my bday weekend. She was very flirtations and its pretty much been implied there will be intimacy as it d be pretty much a sugar date for the weekend.

I book the flight, she arrives. The vibes are really good off the bat, we seem to mesh, end up having a great day exploring the city, checking restaurants, doing activities and finally making out in the movie theatre. Everything seemed to be going smooth and things have been escalating. We finally end up going back to mine around midnight and its like as if the switch was flipped. She kind of says she wants to get a shower and just relax maybe do some work on her laptop. (Who does that at 12 am on a getaway trip?) I still put on a movie and was seeing how she d feel after. And next thing you know she just straight up comes out the showe and says she s feeling tired and maybe we'll cuddle tomorrow, lays on bed and turns away and goes to sleep.

Now under normal circumstances maybe it'd be different, but given that this is pretty much a "sugar date" and we really only have 2 dags to spend I was a bit thrown off. Especially after what seemed to be a good time during the day.

Around about 2 am, I just felt this was just starting to feel off and almost borderline manipulative or some sort of a game so I decided to rent an airbnb for the night and give her the space that she seemed to want. Just txted I m going to see a friend for tonight and will be back tmr.

I feel that definitely turned me off a bit and honestly don't feel like another full day off work to spend time and money on someone who might not be even feeling like that or whatever the case be. So thinking maybe better to just let her know and maybe get her own hotel or airbnb and let her do whatever until her flight back tmr and I m just gonna get back to my regular life.

I dont mind paying for her hotel, maybe even giving her a bit of cash for like food and little expensese, but would paying for her return flight would even make sense in this situation? And like whats the best move here. Thoughts?

Age and gender: (M/32) (F/27) Length of relationship: 3 weeks