Wife whom is toxic to the core and has problems with her own family threatens me daily with divorce and more, today said she hates me and that doesn't enjoy spending time with me, says my tone is always wrong, thinks she does it all and I don't contribute to the house hold (delusions), has threatened to exlude me from the birth of my son. She is 6 months pregnant. She is completley emotionally unstable and completley lacks emotional intelligence and has 0 common sense or logic. I can not even bring up a si gle concern without being told I am negative and I am to just let shit hut the fan time and time again becaude she is unable to handle talking on subjects that most would concider important. Like a 30 year old ac system and a 25 year old furnace both on their way out. I have a massive list of things to accomplish before our son arises. We live in a cape and our mortgage is a song. She has suffered from depression and sleep problems since I met her 10 years ago. Divorce is a comon word for her in our house. For the sake of my 5 year old daughter and our future son I am going to serve her very soon. Securing funds but getting laid off of my job for 2 months in a week or so is playing against me. Before my son is born I need to build 2 door frames and install doors upstairs seperating the bedrooms, install a railing in the stairway, paint the stairs, precure a dresser for my daughter as my son will be using her current furnature, move my daughter upstairs, fix an eletrical fire hazard in a knee wall, install a new sump pump, install a new rip cord on the kawn mower, replace the whole house watee filter, replace the reverse osmosis filters under the kitchen sink, replace the kitchen sink faucet, etc etc etc. Tonight I picked pur daughtrr up from school, colored with crayons and markers with her, made dinner for us and my wife, did the dishes and cleaned up all while my wofe was on the phone trying to explain why she is disappointed in her mom and dad to them. They did not want to deal with it and ended up yelling over the phone. Any advice would be appreciated. I dont know whether to stay or go.