What's the deal with social media/date apps?

exilesoul · 2015-10-06T11:31:30+00:00

women reign over tinder/dating apps, even a semi decent looking girl can gets hundreds of messages/matches a day.

Your playing the numbers game with alot of competition, although you don't have to invest much so that the trade off IMO

OmLaLa · 2015-10-06T15:41:10+00:00

I noticed some rps having a stigma towards, why is that?

Dating sites and social media are a validation paradise. Low SMV women become convinced that they are more attractive than they truly are by desperate men constantly sending them undeserved compliments and kind gestures. Hence the birth of LSSWs (Local Sexy Single Women) i.e. overvalidated "Tinderinas" that perceive their SMVs as much too high.

His makes online interactions very difficult for RPers; with tons of other high SMV men dumping validation on the proverbial table, it's difficult for the RP Alpha to shine amongst his peers without appearing over-invested and in turn being mistaken as just another validation source.

This makes interactions with LSSWs like walking a fine line, on one side you appear disinterested or stand-offish and on the other your mistaken for another desperate blue man (there's only so much value you can show online without appearing "strategic" or "compensatory").

In short: Online, women dominate. Period.

Animosity, the ease/speed of approaching multiple women, the lack of the fear of rejection and generationally-prevalent sexual desperation all illicit that much. Plus the fact most social media sites and dating apps cater to them in the first place (similiar to the "girls get in free" policies at clubs).

Until we find a fail-safe way to level the playing field (if that's even possible), social media and dating apps should be considered late-game, experienced RPAlpha territory. At least in my opinion.

[deleted] · 2015-10-06T15:23:44+00:00

A woman at work (30) is on okc and passes judgement on guys as a staight man would say say yes to, in a parallel universe. She is also overweight, demanding, and a long list of other equally stupid mindsets about it. However, ahe gets messages all day long. She uses two year old pictures. She hasnt been laid in two years. Obvi she does it for the attention , AWALT. She also has a hard line on what the guy does for work, height looks etc... Once those check out she meticulously disects their convetsation to her satisfaction.

Title	What's the deal with social media/date apps?
Author	silver_nuke13
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	October 6, 2015 11:07 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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