I've been improving myself to the point where I think I'm ready to spin a few plates. I downloaded Tinder the other day and put up a few pics. I know my profile is going to need some work if I want matches and I've read up on tinder game for when that occurs, but I have found that there are just not that many hot women coming up.
Everyone is either super fat, has a bad complexion, awful teeth, etc. The few that I've seen that I would rate at HB6+ all have profiles that say "Mother of X wonderful children. They are my world...". Then there are the spam bots that match you and then invite you to a cam site or something of the sort, I don't know I didn't click the links.
So how do I even get to the point where I even use 'Tinder game'? Am I just being too picky? I live in a decently sized city so where are all the hot Tinderellas that I hear about in field reports?
UPDATE: I took a better profile picture and some hotter chicks showed up to swipe. I've had a couple good interactions with a 20yo HB5-6 and a 38yo HB8. I realized while texting them that I need to up my game significantly, but I saw these interactions as good practice none the less.
I did get the # of the 20yo, but she said she's not looking for sex. I played it off by asking her if she was really asking me to stop being so charming. We went back and forth for a bit until I said " Coffee Sunday afternoon" she asked me if I was asking her out so I asked her if she was saying no. She said raincheck because she's going out of town this weekend and won't be back til late on Sunday.
The older chick was going pretty well, I may have jumped the gun a bit on trying to close. We were discussing our accomplishments for the week and I said I'd like to add her to my list of things done. She responded almost instantly with a long two posts about how she doesn't casually fuck around and how getting with her is like going through Navy Seal training. Clearly she meant a difficult task, but I fired back with "So like 50 guys start, but only 12 get to finish" I got a laugh, but more resistance after. Had I more game I think I could have gotten further at least, but I got scared and bailed out. She didn't unmatch me though.
This has definitely helped me realize that there is an abundance in my city and all I need to do is keep improving myself and tighten my game and I can succeed.
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