I'm a 39 year male. Been separated more then 2 years now. Finally happy and feeling myself again. Just want to let you know if you are just stating this journey I promise it gets better. All of us here at one point felt that we will never get over this. Trust me you will.

Anyways, I'm in ont Canada in the GTA area. I'm looking to see if anyone has any luck with med/arb. Or if it is a waste of time. I know things are slightly changing but it can still be very tuff being a man and getting more child custody. Nothing is signed and are sill " negotiating". I think we both want this over finally.

Ii am asking for one more day to get a shared custody agreement and she would no longer have sole custody. It' would help out so many different ways. Financial, and emotionally as I would be to see my 2 boys for one more day and have them one more night.

I'm looking to see if anyone has anymore insight? Thanks