• Met a girl in class

  • I am 26, she is 32, we are both returning students

  • We talked, flirted a bit and I asked her for her number

  • She said she had a bf, but I can have her number for class/hmwk

  • Over the next few weeks we talk a lot in class/studying together

  • LOTS of sexual jokes (mostly by her), flirting, touching, laughing etc

  • She invtes me over to study for a test

  • While we study, she’s flirty, funny and very sexual. She told me how she’s great at oral sex, and described them to me, her breasts etc.

  • She even told me she had a sex dream about me and I was really good. (I would have made a move here, but she has a boyfriend)

  • A week later she tells me in class she broke up w her boyfriend

  • That weekend she tells me she’s going to a party and that if I came with her it would be weird because “i just broke up w my bf, and then ill walk in with you, but you’re not my boyfriend. but then ill get drunk and be all over you. and everyone will be wondering what im doing. But, we can hang out on Halloween if its just plutonic, for now.”

So Ive gotten some signals she likes me (flirting, sexual jokes, sex dream, “id be all over you”) and some that she doesn’t “plutonic, for now.”

How do I leverage this into a hookup? She knows I dig her, she’s single, we flirt etc.

How do I make sure I don’t become her shoulder to cry on while she’s going thru this breakup? I've already told her I don't like her talking about him, and she stopped.

We are hanging out on Halloween, similar costume. Just as simple as making a move that night?