While waiting to go before a judge to start the divorce, my STBEX who has been out of a job since last year, is starting our youngest in a private school that will cost 10k a year while the other three kids continue attending public schools, I’m not sure what’s her reasoning, or who’s paying for it. I heard about this plan from the kids. I already brought it up to my attorney but not sure what to expect and I don’t want to sound to the judge as a parent who doesn’t care for my kid to go to a better school.