Long term plate of mine (4 years coming up) has been coming over more. We've been fucking more. She's becoming more emotionally invested. To the point of saying I love you.

Now, her and I went to a party at her friends house. I understand she's a plate and so it's allowed we both spin each other and flirt and fuck other people. However, she found my condoms a few weeks ago. And asked me about them and asked about who I was fucking and all that shit. She said "I just want to make sure you're safe and when we fuck you aren't giving me diseases" now I believe it. But I also believe it's because it was jealousy.

So she got all butt hurt about it. Back to the party. I went and did my own thing and started talking to people and made new friends. Talked to some girls. I see her drunk off her ass and flirting with a shit ton of dudes.

I ended up calling her out on her double standards and her hypocrisy. I told her you can't give me shit about my condoms but then you go around flirting with everyone. We aren't a couple so we can do all that shit with other people too.

She eventually apologized in the morning after fucking her brains out. And then she left my house. Only to once again say she wanted to see me. And she further apologized more.

So my question is, is it ok to call out plates for their hypocrisy and bullshit? Part of me feels it's insecure. But another part of me says its well deserved for calling them out and telling them they're fucking up. Cause it seems like they get away with their shit way too often and nobody says anything to them. So they always think they can do what they want.