Besides the gym what other outlets are healthy for anger?

youeatlikeachild · 2015-11-09T18:18:06+00:00

Sounds like you have an issue looking at a situation from both sides. What the fuck does it matter how hard you think you work? This guy doesn't know you from any other dipshit new employee he gets sent over and your first order of business was to ask to leave early?

You set yourself up to look like a flake. I hire tons of people to work in my business both short and long term, I don't have the time to try and decipher if the new guy who just called out sick with a car that won't start, really just has the shit luck of his car not starting or just stayed out too late last night.

Shit happens, move on. If you really are a hard worker you will get a new gig, it's your own fault and far better that you learn to internalize it and move on than get pissed off at the world about it.

Also, maybe he just didn't like the cut of your jib, it happens. People don't stay in business to "play" new employees and fire them, he obviously didn't perceive you as being a fit, no big deal.

The lesson if anything, is don't ask a new employer to leave early on your first fucking day if you want to be perceived as a hard worker.

exilesoul · 2015-11-09T20:30:26+00:00

Learning guitar helped me. Im a physical person and an mma fighter but playing guitar the past few months I've found quite relaxing, I can pick up my guitar and let that kind of shit go easily

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awalt_cupcake · 2015-11-09T19:34:19+00:00

Whether or not he approved it he judged your future behavior based on your current actions.

MeatCurtainRod · 2015-11-09T21:51:31+00:00

Hobbies. Only you know what works for fixing your emotional instability at the moment. IF you dont know, observe your direct family on how they do and don't solve their emotional problems. Blood applies here, after all. Some need an aggressive hobby such as MMA. Some just need books.

Title	Besides the gym what other outlets are healthy for anger?
Author	awalt_cupcake
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	November 9, 2015 5:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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