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How to stop being a jerk?

VeterinarianLong7614 · 2025-10-21T22:14:56+00:00

I've been doing this for a long time now and every time I see a girl I like and I'm determined to get closer, I turn into a shit when...

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October 21, 2025

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Title	How to stop being a jerk?
Author	VeterinarianLong7614
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	October 21, 2025 10:14 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1ocqsvm/how_to_stop_being_a_jerk/
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First, it's not basic. Secondary game is about fun, joy and self-amusement. I'm not even sure our days such concept as a scene exists. So who are you trying to outplay?! I could understand goals like spending the night with beautiful twins, or seduce flight attendant, but trust me nobody cares could you open mix set or not.

And before talking about communication with a group, let's just decide that we approach, and in principle, even when it's one person, we approach people who we like, who attract us, who are pleasant to us. Behind this word pleasant is all our subconscious, all our evolutionary mechanisms that allow us to identify a person with whom we are compatible. It is very rare to find a group in which you will really be pleasant. Yes, this happens, but a girl you want to approach, maybe one per hundred. And the group you want to approach, which will be pleasant to you, maybe one per thousand.

You need to review a lot of groups before you choose a group that will be pleasurable to you. So, most often we approach groups in which someone is unpleasant to us. Most of them will be unpleasant. What does it mean? It means that it's a completely different dynamic. It has nothing to do with friendly, pleasant seduction, which we usually have with single person.

So It's an aggressive invasion into an unfriendly environment, where you have to press everyone down. Or charm them. And most likely both. It's not a natural game, it's a lie to yourself and others, which has nothing to do with fun. Not every person can be pleased with such sadistic tendencies. Therefore, if you want to play this game, just honestly admit what game you are playing. And if you don't want to play this game, understand why you really don't want to play it and respect yourself the way you are.