The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.
At the very least, let's not deny that women in their 20s are, on average, more attractive than older women. No, we won't talk about exceptions like supermodels who look stunning even at 40 - those are exceptions, and you know that.
So how is it that older men who somehow managed to attract a significantly more attractive younger woman - are losers? Well, that's just a revenge fantasy for many women.
After all, even if we assume that this man decided to go after younger women because he "can't get smart older women," he's still competing with a HUGE number of men who are also targeting the same demographic of women. And yet, somehow, he got her attention.
You can think about such relationships whatever you want, it's your right and you are not forbidden from doing so, but trying to present these men as "losers who couldn't attract older women" is just fantasy.
