So posted a few times the last few months, basics are she turned into the stereotype party midlife cliché. Fucked about and is now a heavy coke head. Threw her out she went from once weekly box ticking contact with our grown kids(late teens & early/mid 20s) who still live with me to very much less. Got to the point of no contact with them for over 3 weeks. Fast forward to my old man coming to visit for a treble celebration. His retirement, his birthday and my oldest sons birthday.

Suddenly contact increases to almost daily with my son and very much in his life. Turned into a mum again. I chuckle as I know my Dad head home tomorrow and as soon as he's away she dump my son again and get back to her new fella and the new party life.

Transparent and pathetic, the hardest parts of it is that he's now had a week of her giving a shit again to protect her image/ego and will hit him when she pulls back. Also that it shows with effort she can do it for the kids but it's only when she feels someone else is actually watching she has too. Daughter is already pulling away full time from her as she is more emotionally intelligent and can tell she is getting used.

Brightside is that I'm friends with her new man's relative and found out he's been at her for the heavy coke use and they are about 6/8 weeks into honeymoon. She moved out to a friend's for a couple of days. Her chaotic life isn't going smooth and I'm extremely happy to be shot of it.