Looking for recommendations regarding the following with a person whom has a "few months to live" and finding an agency who advocates for children rather than pedophiles. I know that its a person's personal orientation and I am not trying to judge someone's sexual preference to three year olds. To each their own, however, I am opposed to this lifestyle. Is there an agency out there that helps advocate for the protection of these children? Thank you in advance! I do have copies of the pictures that originally were given to law enforcement, if proof is needed.

Good evening,

I am hoping you can provide some direction on options with my state's child support enforcement treatment toward the custodial parent.

I am in the state of Nebraska. My case number is county * CI ** ** *. My name is J*** P*. The other party to my case is Rex D, DOB **//****. He is a convicted sex offender of a child from 20 years prior, which was unknown to me. I thought i had the perfect marriage. My friends were jealous of our relationship. But kids were always leary. I didnt know why.

Then one day the school contacted me stating that my husband was no longer allowed on school property without prior approved escort. Then I had a dad call me yelling and told me "my daughter will never be in that house with that man ever again." Then, my daughter made a concerning statement. I took her to a therapist. A few months later, she disclosed sexual assault by her father, my husband, to which CAC became involved and I was asked questions about human trafficking, prostitution and I was told by the state patrol, "you NEED to get that man away from these children immediately. " Therefore, I immediately got a restraining order and filed for divorce.

Here is my concern: recently, my ex husband has not paid child support consistently for over a year. When I call child support enforcement, the people start off very polite. Then they get my information, say they are going to review my case and after about a minute, their tone becomes very demeaning towards me. They say hes too sick to work and they cannot pursue enforcement until his doctor says its OK.

This person owns his home outright. He paid cash for it. He does not have a new partner who pays for his health insurance to see a doctor. He owns rights to several active oil wells in North Dakota that he receives royalties from. He has not paid his property taxes in two years. I also asked his family member that I get along with that I had heard he is really ill. And the family member was confused that there was any medical concern at all. And that hes fine.

The case manager has called me and said that he is very sick and cannot work but also, does not get any social security or disability. Im told by the case manager that she speaks to my ex often and he "really cares about our daugter and that she can no longer do dance but hes just really sick and if you knew how sick he is, you would understand. "

Then when I tell enforcement that I would like to file a motion to show cause, I am told that they can't pursue enforcement because hes sick and if "you dont like that answer, call an attorney."

Each time I call, I am asked to prove i am providing health care coverage. To which, I have been demanded to prove this five times this year. They have reached out to my employer to prove I have health insurance. I am confused as to why I am upheld to my court ordered responsibilities, but the man who assaulted our daughters from the age of three years old to eight years old is allowed to disregard his court ordered responsibilities.

I want to know why enforcement is in regular contact with him and have very personal conversations about our children however neglecting to discuss how much he enjoys children in intimate settings, not in a fatherly way.

I want to know why nebraskas state child support enforcement do not wish to advocate for children but would rather advocate for convicted sex offenders of children.

Who can I bring these concerns to?

Thank you so much for your help!