Ok so I have been somewhat successful at building up a roster. My #1 takeaway is to be straight forward in your intentions. I’m currently not looking for anything monogamous and I express that early on before the first meeting/date.

I do have a question to anyone in the same situation who’s talking to 5+ people casually. How do you guys plan out the logistics of seeing people if you have a busy life outside of work with friends and physical hobbies. I almost wish there was a way to BCC texts of asking 5 people what their next few weeks look like because between work contacts and friends, and now the roster, my messages are starting to pile up on me.