How can I be more in control of my relationship?

MattyAnon · 2015-12-03T00:35:23+00:00

make her feel like I'm unobtainable

Then be unobtainable. This runs the risk of not being obtained. Be aware of this.

What behaviours should I exhibit to have a more submissive girlfriend?

Be dominant, be attractive, find a submissive girlfriend. Read the sidebar. Lift. Be social. Flirt with more women.

Don't figure on changing the current one much.

Invader_goose · 2015-12-03T01:26:22+00:00

I'm currently in the same boat as you my friend. Here are some things to consider: 1. Trying to be controlling of other people is a sign of insecurity and lack of abundance mentality, 2. Amused mastery will go a VERY long way when dealing with these types of females. When my LTR tries to prove me wrong(whether I am or not) or asserts herself, remember she is just a child. Thus, treat her like one by making fun of her. Agree and amplify, followed by an ass slap, is one of my favorite. 3. (This comes from the rational male) "real power is defined by the degrees to which we have control over our own lives and the direction is takes." Basically, begin the process of learning how to understand and manage your emotions and in turn how you behave towards her. Her ruffling your feathers comes not from her dominant behavior, but from your inability to properly manage how you deal with the ruffling. Thus, by you having dominion over yourself, you will effectively have dominion over her since you will (ideally) always be in your frame and not the other way around.

Hope this helped.

Title	How can I be more in control of my relationship?
Author	Devilsalwayscry
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	December 3, 2015 12:07 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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