Hello,

Picture this, so I was with my wingman at the club last weekend. We saw two cute girls dancing and having fun at the dancefloor. A bit later they had moved a bit away from it, to an adjacent part below it´s level (it´s hard to explain). They were dancing by themselves.

The point is you could still see them from the dancefloor but approaching meant going out of our way to approach them (literally going down some stairs).

We were clearly showing our intentions if we wanted to try, as we did.

So we went in there and started dancing with them, each with one of them. Couple spins and whatnot and a bit of small talk inbetween. Their english was not great so the self amusement route seemed difficult. Still, I feel like they were having fun with us but we didn´t know how move things forward.

After a couple songs the energy died out and we left saying goodbye.

The thing is, how would you escalate in such scenario? For example, if your goal was to make out there? Is grinding "always" necessary or not really?

I know how to escalate with obviously "sexual music", like reggaeton, but I´m quite lost with other kinds of music, like dance music. I feel there´s some distance between a couple spins and going for the kiss.

Anyways, I really appreciate any insights from the great minds of this reddit