This is a rant, but also a genuine question.

I've got a great job, make good money, I've got a cocky attitude, and I'm average height and in good shape. I'm easily top 30%, top 20% is a stretch due to the height but I'm pretty damn sure of myself. Still, it seems like really only a few guys ever really "win," because every girl is a complete slut. Tonight I hung out with a girl who was easily a few points below me in terms of SMV (objective HB4-5), but she thought she was the shit because of the sexual experiences awarded to her as an average female. Literally had slept with an NFL player (he must've been drunk as hell). It seems like nearly all women out there today are alpha widows and think their SMV is several points higher than it really is. Yes, I could've slept with her easily. The IOIs were there. but she's so far below my level that my friends would've mocked me for it if I did. But even if I fucked her it wouldn't erase that attitude that she is somehow socially superior to me. She's seen things I haven't, because, even if for a just few nights in her life, she's been able to hang and fuck on an entirely different level.

It seems like every time I expand my social circle I meet a few cool girls who honestly seem like good girls. The way they look, dress, and act seems so innocent. Then one day we'll be talking and these same girls are mouthing off about being in threesomes, public sex, huge numbers of partners, drugs, massive dicks, etc... So even girls who are objectively on my level, who I could date and fuck, have had these crazy experiences, and I feel like if I don't somehow one up them they'll never truly see me as a sexual equal. I'll be poor hubby. She'll "love" me, but like a sad, cute puppy, because I'm not as alpha as the pseudo-celebrity that fucked her and her best friend that one night in college.

So how do you deal? How do you deal knowing that unless you're a true 1%er all the girls you're sleeping with have been having crazy experiences? That these girls all feel entitled to the highest social circle they've ever fucked their way into? That even if you dip down in SMV she'll still think of you as naive or innocent?