RP way to to reply to this girl

[deleted] · 2015-12-10T18:45:50+00:00

you're overthinking. The goal isn't intentionally to be a jackass but just don't be overly invested and it will naturally show.

If you like this girl, next time she tells you that you don't make an effort or whatever the hell she says just say something like "maybe lunch would be a good start" or whatever. Get a date, escalate, fuck. If it doesn't work, move on.

If you don't like her, then just do whatever, it really doesn't matter.

Also, stop texting her. I made this mistake too many times. Avoid conversing over text. Just IRL. Text for logistics as has been said too many times before.

balalasaurus · 2015-12-10T18:52:39+00:00

Are you sleeping with this girl? If not then you have no need to qualify yourself to her. She's issuing comfort tests here, but if you're nothing more than an orbiter there's no point responding.

My guess is you're yet to do anything with her. In which case let her move away. There's always going to be a window of opportunity with women. Some of those windows don't coincide with your own timetable. Rather than trying to force it to fit, you move on until a window that does fit presents itself.

That is what we refer to as abundance mentality

Title	RP way to to reply to this girl
Author	wartorle
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	December 10, 2015 6:42 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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