Hi, I've been married for almost 2 years. I (20M) and my wife(20F) we know each other from highschool , back when we were 16 and 15. I was really depressed , long story, she was going through a hard time , her parents were going to divorce, and we meet each other, just for not feeling alone (sorry for my eng). We made plans to move together in college, and my christian family told me to marry her because its not ok to move together as concubines and we did. Back then she, did some sexual things for me but after we got married she told me that she faked everything and that she is asexual, we find out that she cannot have sex and it was hard. It was a hard time because I couldn't understand her , after I did , we meet doctors and nothing happened, we find out that she could never have sex, she is not respecting me, she yells at me all the time, I feel like I'm doing everything for her and the only thing she does is doing the laundry, making food and washing the dishes. Every time I try to tell her my problems she makes it about herself and starts crying and I have to help her, like she is always the victim. 2 weeks ago, I told her I can't do it anymore, I tried, I started crying like never in my life. I don't want to be a bad guy. Then she just leaved the house and I go after her because I'm scared that she could harm herself. I feel like she is my little sister that I have to take care of her. I lost an important opportunity working in IT just because she didn't want to move to another city. I just feel exhausted, I'm been under water for to much and I need to breath. I feel like she is manipulating me. I just work, eat, sleep and hope that it will end soon. Please, its really serious for me. Thank you for reading all of this. How can I solve this ? Or How can I break it more easy without hurting her ?