I met this stunning girl that works at the university school gym after my workout today.
She said she’s not looking for anything but I sat there with her making her laugh for about 7-15 minutes.
A little bit about the interaction:
She was sitting outside enjoying sun “working”, made a comment about her enjoying the rays of sunshine. Thought I recognized her as I tried to help another gorgeous girl with her car. Turned out to be her co worker that I was trying to help last week … she just heard about it a few days ago and says they get told they look like each other all the time. I mentioned she had a great smile and she smiled even more.
Controlled the flow of conversation; Moved topic to her major, she’s health science pursing nursing after graduation. She’s cna and works at the school gym and just got a store job too so not a lot of free time.
She likes to read a book a week and into fantasy novels more than romance. Great vibes, Latina beautiful, prefers coffee over matcha-Fit Friendly Feminine. Doesn’t have a bf as she clearly stated. She’s Moving back home after graduation so not looking for anything rn. Likes nature but hasn’t been on too many hikes around our city.
We had great energy and banter.
Asked for her number, but she wanted to exchange ig. I deactivated it last December so I genuinely don’t have one rn. She gave me number i texted “hey it’s (my name) from the gym.” Right there and continued the convo. Found out she likes cider and paddle boarding and hasn’t done too many hikes around here since her friends don’t really like to hike. I had to go to class so I tried to set something up and said “let’s set up some coffee or a drink” as I was leaving and she said a little dismissively joking/ nervously “we will see…”
She is definitely my type, but I haven’t don’t pick up in a long time. Also we are both graduating this semester.
I’m super analytical, but finally been going back to actually doing cold approaches and during this interaction I was on point with the flow and vibes, also felt confident throughout (may have been slight nervousness for split second actually getting the number, but I still went for it). Just haven’t encountered this level of interaction in a while. Should I still pursue and try to set up a date? If so how do I not come across as needy and fun. Any tips from guys actually closing would be helpful as far as texting to set it up asap.
And honestly im not really trying to force anything either (the main reason I’m even asking this) or any relationship as the last one messed me up a lil bit but finally back to wanting more females in my life haha, so in my opinion it would be great just to hang out with her. I know I know: gotta for through the numbers and reps and be in abundance, but I’m just starting back up. Thanks in advance.
TLDR; met a hot chick that works at gym after my workout, vibed it out together and had her laughing. LMR for setting a date up on the spot, still got number. How to text her to keep good energy and actually set up a date?
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