I’m writing this for all the guys here still rocking their V plates (Virgins), everything will come in due time but you have to commit to the game

I lost my virginity at 25, I had no one to teach me how to pick up girls, my dad passed away as soon as I reached university, I knew nothing, I saw girls fawning over other guys left right and center on campus, they were ripped, jacked, good cars, social presence…

I knew more girls than them on campus yet I was a virgin and in the friendzone, my friends would ask me to wing and they would get lucky from girls I bring and I’m scratching my head… was I just not good enough?

Even my second girlfriend, the one that took my virginity, but screwed up royally because I couldn’t get turned on by her… I thought the problem was me…. I have a naked girl in front of me yet I couldn’t get hard….

Having no one to tell me how or why I’m screwing up…. I tried night game… at the clubs…. Still nothing…. Same story…. I know heaps of girls all calling me a good guy but none want to be with me…..I didn’t give up….. one day a gay friend of mine told me something that changed my reality … he said “you’re not aggressive enough”, “not bold enough”, “you’re too nice”, girls didn’t put me in the friendzone, I put myself there and kept myself there

Things changed when I displayed my intention from first interaction, I started getting lucky, I realized that the first girl just wasn’t what I was into and hence I didn’t get turned on; I found myself and I hope that others can do too

My goal in writing this is that I’ve been responding to heaps of people still with v plates and they’re expecting instant results, it took me 6 years to learn the game, you cannot live by the same metric of instant gratification when it comes to the game, it takes time

Also for context, the same guys I winged for and who got lucky from my wings back then are asking me now how I do it…well I’ve had a lot of practice at this point, quality over quantity