So, I was an international student in the usa and I didnt finish school because my father lost his job and I had no clue what do because I wasnt raise to work at that age and I didnt know much about my father raise like go to school finish and then start working. So I decided to move back home and go to another counrry which was cheaper. After I went covid hit and everytging was close, my girlfriend got pregnant and I decided to go back home to start working. Start looking for a job, no luck there and start doing freelancing job since I do website and softwares I was able to work from home. Remember I was still living in my fathers home. After still looking for a job and no luck there I start focusing in frelancing and I was making good money to support the house and everyrhing. Then I decided I will go hard on this and maybe create other business to support the house. Ok after a year in my father home I decided to move out and work om my owne and live alone. My girlfriend is the one that support her house and her family because she is the only one working there. Salary is good and everyrhing. Since I start freelancing we but she start spending a lot of the money and she was buying everything with the money was making and I was also helping sometimes in her house and everyhting buying things online ans everyhting. After 2 years of this nonsens I told her we have to stop the spending ans I have to focus om the house we have. Like buying things for the house because before i move to the house I only bought the necessary things like tv fridge table, couch, oven and other kitchen things. I told her we have to stop doing this, first she start complaining and I told her we have to stop if you want tk buy I can teach you but we have to focus on our house. She didnt understand that.

Since then we have had issue about money because I dont want to give her money to buy things and complain, mind you that she has money. Since I start saying I dont have she start buying herself things. I said thats good but your going on too much and you have to stop buying things online for a month or so. Argue again.

Fast fowars now my work slows down normally in june and money is tight and she makes payment and I pay her back no problem there.

Now she buys a lot of things online and she is complaining that I dont help her.

Shes I always told you to get a job and you didnt get it.

She says when your with someone you have to help. Now that the work is slow and I in school, buying everything in my house and every time we go out I pay for. Everything used to be me I paid for.

Now its complaining that I dont help enough and she is supporting too much people.

Our daugther lives with her and I pay the school and some money little to be honest. Most clothes I pay for it or my father and mother give ro my kid. Every toy my kid wants I pay or my father buys it.

Now she is saying I dont have I job I dont help enough its just taking a tool on me to be honest. I never CRY never but today I think I may because I feel like its better to just leave.

She helped me a lot as well, while I was looking for a job she use to help thats why I didnt save I didnt do anything besides trying to give her the world but today we had a conversation that can you beleive that she told we dont know where the money went. Can you believe this ?

Im just exhausted to be honest. I think I may let her go and focus on my things and working on my things. Thank you im just sad.

Edit: Im m33 and she is f30. Forfot to mention that we had a talk about me getting a job and I already start looking while I still do my freelancing jobs becuase is the one paying my bills and Im in university now which is taking all the money 🤣🤣.

Even with all these issues Im still happy laughing trying to live life. I just feel that she does not give the support that a man in this journey should get. And always getting complains and spensing money and saying that she didnt spend is wild for me. Im just very very sad to be honest. Hearbroken even. Keep in mind that I always wanted to talm about my business she never listen NEVER.