Recently, I have started to see myself not be able to keep a conversation going with girls I speak to.

I mean I improved myself to do good with girls at parties and concerts simply because there is nothing to talk about and it is mostly/all body language.

However, as I move on to the regular world (read: day game where you start to put more of an emphasis on the behavior of the girl) I start to see myself struggle more and more.

As I visit this sub more and more, I am advised to focus on myself, study hard and lift. I've been doing that. Dropped a lot of weight, got an early acceptance to an ivy league school and I'm not even done yet. However, this leaves no room for any further hobbies.

I believe this approach has left me with a disadvantage. The only thing I can talk really well about is school and the gym. Not the best panties-wetter discussion topics out there. when it comes to conversing with females, it seems like there is no mutual area between me and the girl. I practice on three different girls every day and the result always seems to be the same.

Girls in my generation (or the ones surrounding me) all either have their fucking heads stuck in their phone or pay attention to gossips only. Almost all of them are attention whores or pseudo-feminists. This is not bad but there are plenty of these people in a night game and these aspects can be ignored.

I mean I even paid attention to what couples talk about and the majority is nonsense about the stupid drama that the boyfriend participates in as well. One time I even heard a girl brag to her boyfriend about how she "forced her friend to buy the same toothbrush as her because of how much she loves her". What's worse is that I heard the boyfriend reassure her of her influence.

Are these the kind of relationships trp people get into? Certainly not. But in an age of Validation Machines (read: smartphones), is this the new standard? To become so obedient towards girls in hopes that she won't dispose of you like plastic bags if you are not in the top 10%. Most of the trp community would suggest skipping such girls and work on yourself but they don't see the fact that you need experience with girls to "work on yourself" and in order to "have experience with girls" you need to "work on yourself", therefore creating a paradox.

That was a bit of rant. My question is, what are some general topics of discussion? what do You, as a bright-minded trp individual, see as a mistake in my life that I must correct in order to prosper?

Thank you for your time.