TL;DR:

1. Gaming older woman, tips/tricks? (specifically for early twenty guys gaming later twenty girls, but of course all ages welcome to share their advice!).

2. Gaming/Chasing women like "James Bond", can it be done well? I hesitate to say chasing, actually, being confidently persistent with them is a better phrase. You know, working them like a true player. Not nexting them after 1 or 2 ignores or flakes, because AWALT obviously. Tips/tricks others have found for this?*

3. Women who live far away geographically, (not insanely far but something like a 1 or 2 hour drive) what changes? How to get the first dates and avoid flaking?

4. Social media: worth it, yay or nay? For Tinder, is bare bones facebook enough?

5. Texting: in general it seems that texts longer than a 5 words used consistently cause the conversation to degrade for some reason. Thoughts?

I'm 21. Game has begun to explode as of late, been actively working on it for ~3 or 4 months and already the improvements are dramatic. Have gotten many hook-ups, coming out of an over 3 YEAR dry spell (almost my entire college career). Beta, incel, NEVER made a move on a woman EVER, social anxiety, luckily I looked well enough so women would approach me or I never would have gotten laid. No strong father-figure to teach me any game/stuff like that, the whole nine yards; we've all heard similar stories to mine.

No one EVER told me I could approach the women, I could set the rules, make the moves. I put my bitch, pussy fragile little ego out there and watched it get destroyed and shot-down by women who were 4/10's in bars - but I tried just to improve. Kept trying, kept improving, now the rewards are coming. Funny how much of a complete fucking bitch my ego was, and I always thought I was such hot shit. HAHAHA it makes me laugh now. Anyway, enough of that rant, RedPill has been a savior to me. Obviously still many improvements to make, but fuck this is exciting.

  1. So how do we lay the game on women who are older? For my purposes, I'm talking about 24-29 range; many of which are sexy as hell and more mature than girls closer to my age (which I enjoy). Tips/tricks from my fellow RedPillers who have had success in this area?

Went out last night to the bars around a well-to-do area with an older crowd. Loved it, my game is getting tightened up, but definitely made mistakes; like telling these women I was 21. Though it worked out in my favor sometimes because I framed it in the right way (I play the cocky, asshole type game because it fits me and my physical looks, but am going to start trying a more "James Bond" type approach at times) sometimes it didn't.

Problems I've been having with these women are: no car (will be a poor medical student for the next 4-5 years), no significant income (though medical school loans/scholarships will soon give me enough money to live comfortably while there).

Word-for-word, a girl said to me last night "You're so young, 21, what can YOU do for ME?". Coming from a 26y.o. 9/10. She ended up giving me her occupation (physicians assistant), name, address, email, EVERYTHING except for her phone number. I probably laid the best game I am currently capable of and I ended up with the area code and last 4 digits, but not the first 3. So, I'm assuming this means she wants me to chase her? She was completely receptive of all physical advances except for the kiss. Hung with her for ~1 hour cause she was so much fun.

-This has been a semi-common theme I've seen with alot of the 8-9's/10. These women know the game, and they are really fucking good at playing it themselves. They are great a teasing, shit-testing, etc, and many times if difficult to get them for a same-night hookup, even a number. I know one day I'll be at the point where I can out-game these women, but for now I try my very best. Guess this will come as I continue to get more and more experience with it. Need to learn how to work these women like James Bond would over the longer-term.

  1. Women who do not live close to you. What's the deal here? I'm essentially referring to any women you meet who lives farther than a 45-60min drive from you. Same rules here: as in "Hey, let's meet at this place at XX time for drinks?"? But then, if they flake that's an annoying drive to and from. Also, might be a pretty big investment to tell her something like "Okay drive 30minutes there I'll meet you there it's halfway" for a women you've just met who really doesn't have a large amount of investment in you, no?

  2. Social media. Deleted my facebook 6 years ago because of my social anxiety, didn't have many friends, etc. Want to get on tinder to start jacking up the volume of women I am able to interact with and fuck; can I just make a bare-bones facebook profile (my first name, last initial, a few pictures) and that will be good enough? I don't actually plan on using social media for anything other than tinder. Is this a mistake? As in, will social media help my success rate to a large degree?

  3. Texting. Have come to realize that texts longer than ~8-10 words generally start to elicit unfavorable responses from the girls unless it's a text specifically saying "Hey, let's meet here at XX time see you then". Seems like 1-5 words is the place to be at when talking. Gotta get way better at this. Seems like the longer texts can work for a few minutes, but if the conversation keeps going with you sending long-ass texts it'll quickly disintegrate for some reason while she responds less and less. Thoughts?

That was long; just very excited at all these new opportunities and literally an entire new world to me.

One quick thing: A perfect opener I've found is to literally go up to the girl and say "Give me your drink". Probably had 5 girls tell me they'd never gotten that before, got a bunch of free drinks from girls, a bunch of girls calling me a fucking asshole and bailing after I kept fucking with them, and 2 near instant hook-ups. Granted, I've been in hardcore monk mode for over 3 years due to incel and my SMV is already significantly high. So this probably plays a role in the success rate.