Do you write to girls you made plans with 3 days in advance?

patuloco78 · 2018-10-10T19:49:01+00:00

Pls don’t waste your time with girls who flake. Trust me, just next them and focus on other things when you smell a wiff of disinterest. If you are the catch, they should be eager to meet. Either she is hot for you or not and texting or fixing appointments in advance ain’t going to change that.

DebonairD · 2018-10-10T19:05:24+00:00

Wait until the day of. Perhaps that morning

[deleted] · 2018-10-10T19:17:00+00:00

You've had some girls that weren't that into you, or are shitty human beings still. It's common, but you don't have to put up with it.

This is what abundance mentality is all about. If a potential plate, spinning plate, or FWB flakes one too many times, next and game other women.

You can make contact the day of or a few hours before to remind them, but they should remember or you need to be daddy and tell them to set an alarm or save the date on the calendar in their phone.

The more of a daddy you have to be, the more you should consider spankings a very vital part of retraining.

[deleted] · 2018-10-10T20:10:25+00:00

I leave it until day off. If she's "fuck yeah" interested she'll remember. If she's "so-so" interested she might still come but you'll be able to tell. If she's not interested she'll flake. Adjust accordingly after that

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-10-11T02:17:06+00:00

Day of confirmation text.

Quaternionz · 2018-10-11T04:46:40+00:00

Three days in advance is fine. Do a confirmation text the day of. If they’re flaking it’s because they’re not interested.

Could be that she wasn’t really interested in the first place.

Sometimes they just have so many options that they’ll say “Eh, fuck it. I want to stay in and binge Netflix today. I’ll have 200 more matches tomorrow and I’ll pick a new dude for next week.”

As a guy who is starting to have more and more options, I feel this temptation myself sometimes. You get some validation from scheduling the date and then you don’t care to actually show up. “Fuck it, I’ll just bang a regular plate Tuesday instead.”

If your SMV is high enough it’ll counter this though, girls will flake less due to this. I know I tend to flake more when the girl is nothing to write home about.

ThickSoild2802485 · 2018-10-11T06:23:14+00:00

What I always do i set the date up, and don't contact them until 30 minutes before the agreed meeting time. I will usually send a text like this; "hey *girl's name*, i'm gonna be about 15 minutes late, see you soon x". This confirms the date, without implying the chance of a flake. Works every time.

Title	Do you write to girls you made plans with 3 days in advance?
Author	LuckyRedPill
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	October 10, 2018 6:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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