Found out I am an ENFP, so I feel more freely and get more mushy quickly. RP requires you to be cold, isolated and technical with your actions - converse to what my personality is. How can I be feely and be alpha/red pill at the same time?

vandaalen · 2016-01-14T22:16:29+00:00

Who told ou that you need to be cold and calulated? That's bullshit.

Not letting other people use you, your ressources and your time without reciprocrating, not being a door-mat, not being an emotional tampon, is not the opposite of being a passionate human being.

Abundance mentality, as the name already implies, is a mindset. it does not mean quantity over quality, but just that you feel you are living in abundance of pussy and do not need this single unicorn to be happy in life. It's like dropping a penny and thinking about if it's worth bending over to get it, or just let it stay where it's at.

Time and commitment, I don't mind giving people my time. Makes me feel good to help people see the world.

You need to decide what makes you more happy: The short-term reward of feeling happy for the moment, when you lavishly give away your most valuable ressources for free, without making others work for, or the long-term reward of being able to live without this validation by others and making your decisions when to give those assets to people based on other reasons.

Also acknowledge, that if you are wasteful with your time and commitment, they are also worth nothing to other people and it will make them feel much more happy if they percieve those as valuable, if and when they get them, after havin to work for it.

ell000 · 2016-01-14T21:37:37+00:00

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benediction_in_mind · 2016-01-15T15:08:50+00:00

Stoic and mysterious in LTR and intimate situations. Free and ambitious in public settings.

As much as you want that feeling of being loved, you have to understand you can find it someone else guaranteed. Even if this girl seems to be "the one", understand that you don't need to be with "the one" to live, pursue your visions instead.

As much as you want that special love in your life, realize they will hold you down from pursuing the better things in life. ENFPs are notorious for being attention whores so having that special kind of attention will bring them down.

Also start worrying about yourself first, before others. Be selfish and use a lot of cold logic (Te in ENFPs) to pursue whatever dreams you have.

JimFury · 2016-01-14T23:05:50+00:00

These four letter personalities need to go. Thats some autistic shit.

abdada · 2016-01-15T02:00:26+00:00

Myers-Briggs is just as much hooha as astrology and Reflexology. Stop with that shit.

Lift some damned weights and spin 20 plates and you won't believe in that femme crap anymore.

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