My heart is broken. My girls visa expired and she had to leave the country, we were only together for 2 months but we saw a future with eachother.

I have options but I don't want them, I want her. I've read the sidebar, some sections more than once.

I know she's not a unicorn because AWALT but our chemistry is undeniable, we were living together within a month of our first time sleeping together.

She has red flags like heaps of guy friends and an obsession with social media but she's willing to learn and be educated about why these things aren't ok.

I want to move on because I can't be with her, I feel like she will always be at the back of my mind, you could offer me all the hb10s in the world and it wouldn't mean a thing.

I'm seriously considering uprooting my life to be with her but that would make me the pursuer and change our dynamic anyway, so the best thing is for me to move on.

How can I do this when I don't even have the motivation to pursue other girls? I see them as empty husks all I want is her.

Give me the harsh truth, slap me back into reality.