I just got friendzoned by this girl I thought was interested in me in one of my classes. I lift and people say I am decently big, I wear nice clothes and have a sense of fashion, just got a nice haircut, I can make small talk with strangers and while I do have some approach anxiety if you tell me to approach that hot chick I'll approach that hot chick. I just don't really know how to move much further at this point, besides just getting a super model body and just I don't know literally start hitting on everybody and just increase my game slowly but brutally by looking like some pua fool (pua is fine imo but it can get pretty dumb).

I've thought about hiring dating coaches but I think my biggest hurdle and the reason I got friendzoned is because I just come off as desperate / socially inept in some sense and women's instincts immediately know what I am. At this point, what should I do to improve my game and myself?

I have a strong group of friends but none of them can really pull, they just have girlfriends; I have some female friends I kick it every so often. I struggle with mild depression but I don't think it's bad enough to warrant medication (and I have been on antidepressants before with mixed results). I just don't really know what to do anymore. At this point, what can I do or should do? Please help me in any way you can my RP brethren.