Sorry if this doesn't exactly belong here I have no where else in mind where to put it. I'm a 20 year old male in a somewhat large university. Over the last few months or so I've realized I have terrible self-esteem. I obsess over how I look and not how I feel, and I'm constantly in fear over what people think of me. Due to the anxiety I've been getting very little sleep every night and that just doesn't help at all. I've gone to some friends (male and female) who have either trivialized my feelings or failed to understand them (man up, etc). My school has a women's resource center but Im just a little uncomfortable with the idea of going there with my problems. Its really starting to eat away at me and I've finally come to accepting it but now it seems like there is no where to go. I've used a throwaway since some friends know my account :/