Hey buddies,

I'm a 27 year dude that lives with only my mother. Since I can remember myself my mother was always a very difficult person, moody, aggressive, with very few friends and relationships. She had a very hard childhood and had myself with my dad which abandoned her. In my youth I was someone quite heterodox and crazy, I took the most awkward paths in life and did many mistakes, but I consider my intelligence to be much above the average, even though when I was younger I was very naive.

Thing is that my mother was always this very masculine and dominant woman, at least on the outer layer, and I became throughout the years a quite beta insecure man, luckily I always felt that something was wrong.

Now I feel that I'm finally reaching the answer for this masculine issue that I've been searching for so long. I always felt that this feminist talk was bullshit and that what women say isn't what they truly feel. Also I've noticed that women look for a strong, dominant male, and to find this person they are always testing men's balls.

What I want to ask you guys, is that if you think that there's any correlation with these tests women do to men, to the fact that my mother is always complaining with me, asking me to do household shores, telling me that i'm useless, and being violent and aggressive with her words towards me, even though I'm a quite cool and pacific guy. She also always threatens me that she will do something to make my life worse. In other words, could be my mother fighting me for some unconscious reason? Like to make me stronger, expecting me to just fight her back, or to put limits on her behavior? How do you think I can best handle this situation?

ps: I have plans to leave my mother's house as soon as I can, however right now it's not possible or my life will go much worse than already it is.

Thanks!