How to internalize the fact that women are like children

[deleted] · 2016-03-24T23:24:54+00:00

First off, treating women like children =/ women ARE children. Some of the women I know are more intelligent and mature than most men out there who cant think beyond fertilizing chicks. Respect women, but remember that to make a connection with them you have to treat them like children, the free flowing little cuties who will get happy when you tease them. The more logical you get, the more the child gets bored, but the more unexpected/teasy you get the convos get much more interesting.

Also from your tone it feels like you have picked up the wrong message from that phase. Men are so much more immature nowadays that you can put them in that category as well

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-03-24T23:50:03+00:00

Oh, everybody is. Most people only act and think as mature/sophisticated as they feel the situation requires of them.

Also, don't fall for the trap of thinking that because somone has fundamentally different goals from you, means they're actually being childish or illogical.

The difference is, men's emotional goals tend to be less likely to conflict each other. So, being more intelligent and/or more educated can make women a lot more likely to think themselves into several circles. (Also keep in mind that traditional academic success is not really about intelligence and more about having a certain, limited set of skills.)

So, in your situation, having a strong frame, knowing what you want, and acting in accordance with that becomes more important. Taking decisive actions become even more important.

oldredder · 2016-03-25T12:47:55+00:00

emotionally and rationally as children, based on the evidence, except they have the adult power to put you in jail with stories that aren't credible.

[deleted] · 2016-03-24T23:45:21+00:00

However, this becomes really difficult when these so-called "children" are in the same university programs as you with outstanding marks and have top-notch professions such as doctors, lawyers, professors, etc. In addition, being in a relationship with such an educated woman makes it even harder for me to treat them like a child. So what's the best way to go about this and really make it stick.

Congratulations, you have a brain.

Title	How to internalize the fact that women are like children
Author	rpvp
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	March 24, 2016 11:09 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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