Hey red pillers,

I've admittedly been out of the game for a while, probably a year and a half of being lazy and not going after women.

Recently been getting back into things and met a girl (24; Im 25) who's a friend of my cousin. She digged me a first, told me she liked me. We all went out for New Years and we kissed briefly at the end of the night. Funny thing, I got pretty drunk at the bar, and after kissing she said "you can sleep in my bed tonight, but Im doing anything yet." I was like, okay, that's fine. After the uber back, I passed out on the couch of house she shares with her friends. Fuckup #1.

The next weekend we go out to a hockey game together and have a blast, some more kissing, but I wasnt able to close since it was an early game and she had girls night out plans later. Fuckup #2

So we're texting each other brief flirty convos almost every day for the following week. I ask her on like that thursday if she wants to grab lunch on saturday, and she responds with a sunday dinner is better she needs to do holiday shopping returns and shit. Ok w/e I agree.

Ive told her before I'd love to show her my place, which was met with "invite me over". So I think I'll invite her over to watch the football game (she likes sports) before we go out to dinner. She responds with "hmm maybe, ill let u know tomorrow cause Im going out tonight".

At this point Im starting to realize I need to get back to trp line of thoughts to make this girl want me more, becuase Im feeling like Im becoming a backup or sunday only thing. So I ignore her response, and two hours later she replys pissed with ?? And saying she expected a response. I didnt feel like fighting with her so I just said some counter she couldnt get mad at like "i miss u and Im looking forward to tomorrow". She didnt respond.

Im looking for advice on how to handle this. Im currently waiting for a response and will go from there. Should I event entertain this anymore? Have I lost all frame with my fuckups? She definetly still likes me, but she is either playing hard to get or expects me to be the beta after I led with that frame of mind, and is getting pissed Im starting to change frame.