I was an outgoing guy a few years ago, but I started smoking weed in university daily which is generally a solitary activity so I was cut off from most people. During that time I kept up with my old friends, most of which are blue pill. My social skills dwindled, my social anxiety tripled, I stopped going out, started gaming and gambling. While still being a lurker on the red pill. One by one, I lost all my friends. Today marks the day I officially have no friends.

My oldest friend called me and told me ‘we have no chemistry’ and that we shouldn’t talk anymore. It doesn’t bother me, we just grew apart I guess. I told him that if he comes up with some new chemistry ideas, to not call me.

My question is, how do I 1.stop being in my own head 2.stop being a shitty boring person to be around 3.make friends with other people that aren’t trying to take advantage of my financial situation 4.be more disciplined

I have a high smv from my stuff, ie expensive watch, nice car, money, relatively good looking but nobody wants to be around me, even my own family avoids me. Except people that obviously try to take advantage of the fact that I can buy them stuff, or the ones that want to live vicariously through me as I do and that’s all they care about.