I am certainly an anti-feminist, I am sure of that.

But sometimes some of the things I read on here and on TRP seem like they are going to the other extreme side....am I wrong?

Can I have my own career, am I considered an equal to my SO? I agree that there are lots of things that I should work on to become a better person for my SO...but is things like cleaning and housework along those lines? Or is it more along the lines of how I approach him with problems, or how i communicate with him in general? Am I inherently a terrible person? Maybe there is a link to a reading where I can understand both of these concepts further? I really do want to understand.