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[–]TempestTcup 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Basically you are saying, "I know this is exactly the opposite of what you are all about on this sub, do you have any suggestions?"
Yes, do the opposite of that. Get a husband, have kids, then go to college and get a career when the youngest is in school. Or waste your best child-bearing years, when you are young, healthy and have a lot of energy, to get a career, then compete with all of the 20yos for the best husband, and have kids when your body is older, your eggs are older, and your career is in full swing.
Maybe you should ask /r/TwoXChromosomes
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[–]TempestTcup 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do what you want - who gives a flying fuck? You were asking RPW and I gave the RP answer. Millions of women have done exactly what you are doing - ask them.
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[–]squishles 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I opened this then wandered off to do other things before it was removed, and I'm gonna ignore that and your whinning bit, because well lol, and specific domain knowledge.
But work with some older programmer women. Each does 3 days work from home a week. None of them waited until 29 for kids, doing the math on their kids age and theirs, they went for about 24-26. Only one of the three of them I'm thinking of is in an rp style relationship, it's adorable as fuck, indian immigrant couple like 50% shot it was arranged, haven't asked. The other two would probably qualify as nightmare examples here.
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