As the title says, in the past I was really unathletic. Like 10 minute mile unathletic.

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So a guy, who I'd say I'm somewhat friendly with, is starting an intramural rugby team. It sounded fun, and he was going around asking everyone to be part of it. He asked me, and I said sure. He had started a groupchat for it, and he was adding everyone who was interesting, even a few people who weren't. I asked him twice to add me, and he hasn't.

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And I overheard him talking to someone, and it was about me. He said, 'well, he's not a bad guy, but I don't think he's athletic enough'.

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And I've been lifting. Should I insist on being a part of it, or just drop it and walk away?