It’s winter break and I have free time so I visited this chick in another state. She was an old fuck buddy who I actually thought wasn’t AWALT and respected me.

I fly over (super cheap flight) and guess what, she makes it clear we aren’t fucking. I didn’t mind and asked her why she was so concerned about sex... quickly changes the subject. The whole trip she just shit tested me, made me sleep in the basement, and would hop in my bed in the morning, I’d grab her ass, then she’d say “stop” and leave.

I’m not mad, it’s always nice exploring a city you’ve never been, but why did she act like this after we would constantly fuck where I live? She even said I was the only guy to make her orgasm. It was just weird, I never reacted to her shit tests, and always tell her to fuck other dudes when she tries to “bother me” because ON GOD it does not bother me. I’m calm and collected with her and ALWAYS tell her to be a slut while she can. I know she isn’t interested in a relationship which is why we get along.

Any idea? She brought up not having sex numerous times during my trip to which I’d reply “I don’t remember asking”. I’d literally say that’s cool, and the next she’d say we aren’t fucking. What gives?