IRON RULE
I can't reference this exact rule from the RM, but I obviously know that unless I plan on getting married to this woman within 6 months, moving in is off the table.
I have been dating this woman since early October, and come March, she finds out where her Residency for OB/GYN will be for the next 4 years.
Ideally, I would like for it to work.
However, I do have plans on applying to graduate school this Fall of 2019. Granted, I may be able to take courses online, but it is a given I will be working on my MBA.
Considering what you know based on what I have just said, I am considering enjoying the time we have now, and when the time gets closer to 'match' day, I will make the decision then. She's eluded to it saying "babe, we're moving to Florida" but I have no desire to live with a woman who I have no plans of marrying (for now).
It is also a non-negotiable for me to be in a long distance relationship.
I will cut my ties and move on if I have to because there will never be a shortage in other women...
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