Been seeing a girl for 1.5 months, started off while I was fucking other girls but we got very close very fast (met like 15 times already) and she was showing lots of green flags, so now I’m vetting for LTR. We haven’t had “the talk”.

Now she hits me with this. Her electric bike broke and she wants to take a 1hr drive (each direction) to a boring ass town (call it BoringVille) to get it fixed. Here’s the convo:

Her: any chance you’re feeling spontaneous and want to take a road trip with me to BoringVille? Her: I know, very appealing Me: what Her: going to get my bikes fixed Me: I’m expecting a postcard

The way I’m seeing it, it’s 1. a waste of my time, and 2. her checking if I’m her “boyfriend”, willing to do boyfriend things. But my friend says I’m being a total jerk, and she hasn’t responded since. Now I’m feeling a bit guilty and wondering if I was in the wrong here.

What do you think?